High school ref meeting... blech!

You know the high school association is so focused on coaches when, at a referee association meeting, the "trainer" goes on about coaching activities. Every year I get just a little more cynical about high school athletics. I don't know if it's because I don't feel the love (the guy really hammered on things that would get us fired or sued this year - I suppose it's better than the insults he did in years past when I kept a list of the number each time), or just them being overly pompous.

Whatever it is - I just don't care. I'll do the games, more times than not I'll even enjoy them - but hearing the high school league pontificate about how important they are, and how they're better and have higher ideals than the USSF or FIFA just turns my stomach. OK, to be truthful, they may well have higher ideals, but they fall so short of them that the USSF and FIFA, in their (according to the high school authorities) "the game is all mentality" are actually far more instructive and helpful to the kids than the structure of high school sports will ever be.

Overall, I've seen worse sportsmanship from players and coaches in high school, taking the medal in both the overall and individual events. I suppose I'd like some honestly out of them; something along the lines of, "It doesn't matter how good you are, how right you are - if the coach doesn't like you, you're screwed." Now the referee's association knows and says this, but it wouldn't hurt to come from the actual people in charge.

12 November '08 - 23:35 - - default| Only one comment - §

Caution (not the booking)

My schedule before my last game was thus: the day before was the gym with my trainer, the next day the game, followed by a day off, then another center for a city high school team.

I felt a slight twinge in my knee the day of my game, but nothing serious, did the game and had no problems (as you see in the previous entry). The next day the twinge was worse, and by the end of the work day, still nothing serious, but I definitely didn't want to risk it.

It's the long way of saying I pulled out my scheduled game so I could evaluate my knee. The odd thing is that the twinge is only in certain positions - my guess is that it didn't like something I did at the gym.

30 October '08 - 07:53 - - default| No comments yet - §

Oh, geez - it's high school season again

A quick warning and recap for those who just joined us. I dislike working high school soccer games - sometimes I outright detest them, and you will hear be complaining about it a lot. So why do them, you may well ask? Easy: if you're not good enough and/or lucky enough to work colleges games, they're the only competitive option available. If you like working recreational games of U14 and below (mostly U10 and below), you're fine - but if you want any type of competitive game, this is it. You take it, and take the aggravation that comes with it (usually it's rude parents, obnoxious and ignorant coaches, and an unsupportive infrastructure) - or you don't work. Frequently, I opt for the later.

I do love to do games in the city; it's been my observation that the closer to the city-center you are, the more pleasant the games are. The more suburban, the ruder and nastier the adults, and if you have two suburbs of equal distance, but one is a red district and one is a blue, the red's are meaner every time. I have no empirical evidence of this, only my own experiences - but I stand by my own observations at least as how they apply to my own history.

I'd love to do more city games, but most of the time I just can't - last year they started all their games at 4:30 pm, which took me totally out of the picture; but today's game was at 6pm - which I was easily able to do - and, it was a nice, pleasant game with no cards, no controversy, and well mannered people of all ages. It was still very much a high school boys game: extremely narrow field, and the sole strategy for both sides was to dump the ball as far down field as possible once the defense collected the ball - but that's the same as most of the high school boys teams around here, anyway.

The good humor won't last, though.

20 October '08 - 00:24 - - default| No comments yet - §

Another minor change

It's an assumption, yes - but the timing is a little bit suspect. It looks like the guy who prompted me to enable comment moderation has decided to spambomb my refblog email account. So, for the time being, I've disabled the account. If you want to have a comment made privately, please specify it as so at the top of any comment made on the site. I'll keep it from being posted on the board and reply back with another, non-published, account.

13 October '08 - 14:03 - - default| No comments yet - §

I didn't expect that center

I went into the day expecting a line, expecting to work with two guys I've known for a while, and ended up working with two completely different men, on a completely different game, and in the middle. Part of it was because we're in the playoffs, and because the actual scheduling was done last minute, as it wasn't known until the last minute which teams would be playing. And even though I was there an hour early, and the assignor was already there, I didn't actually find this out until 20 minutes before the scheduled game time.

That's a very short time to mentally prep myself - and I do prep myself differently between a line and a center, especially a men's playoff game! This was followed by the guy who thought he was to be the center (who only showed up five minutes to game-time), being really pissed that he didn't have the middle as the thought... and he made damn sure to bring up a waived-down flag he disagreed with up to the (surprise) assessor. But I'm at the stage in my career where, while I want to do the best games I can, and enjoy the high-pressure matches (of which, sadly, this really didn't count - it was a rather low-key blowout), I really care less what others think. I do my job, I try to do it well - and at the risk of injecting a bit of ego into this, I do it better than most other people (and probably would over a guy who shows up five minutes before kickoff). This isn't to say there are people who are better than I am - there sure are! There's a reason I don't work higher-up games than I do - and I'm OK with admitting that, too. But it's hard not to question someone when they show up that late, and act like it's perfectly normal and OK.

Beyond that, the game was pretty easy. There was an early card (like three minutes in), for a guy trying to distract another player shooting - the sudden yell just as the guy's about to connect. So that was one. A second one came in the early second half on a really hard challenge - even his own players were telling him they could see the card (he didn't, of course).

The third caution was by the other team, and was one of sheer frustration: they went from being down 2-1 at halftime to down 5-1 in the 90th minute, and he just grabbed shirt and pulled - not caring who saw him. I got a small earful about calling it both ways, to which I replied, "Hey, I'm looking at my book here, and the other teams got twice as many cautions as you have; if I'm not calling it both ways, I think you got the better end."

Actually, I didn't get a lot of guff for my calls during the game. It was all pretty straight forward, even if I wasn't mentally prepped for it. (more)

11 October '08 - 09:41 - - default| two comments, already - §

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Feature Articles

Updated Reading of the LOTG - §

I've updated the audio-recording of the Laws of the Game. It's still not a professional recording, there's still bound to be little mistakes (and maybe even big ones - did I mention it's not a professional recording?). If you're like me, and spend a lot of the time in the car (or someplace else where reading isn't practical, but listening is), maybe this will help you.

No update to the ATR yet - the last couple years has seen the USSF tighten up on it's copyright; and although I can't see this as a threat to them, I haven't decided if the greater good is worth more than the possible financial hit.

You can download the updated reading here (44.5 MB).

17 Mar '08 - 20:06 | No comments yet

The New USSF Sock: This End Up - §

OSI is gradually pushing out the pieces of the new uniform, and recently I obtained the final piece of the revamp - the socks. I try to be very honest about the good and the bad about OSI (see this article for a review of the new jerseys), but I've always loved the fit of their socks; and with the revamp of the new socks, the fit of the stockings haven't changed, but the styling has.

Let's be perfectly clear: 90% or more of referees in this country do not need these socks. (more)

11 Feb '08 - 21:15 | six comments, already

Refblog.com OS X Dashboard Widget - §

OK, so I'm a geek: aside from the owner, I'm the only one in the company I work for that doesn't have kids, so I'm stucking working all week (except for Tuesday), so instead of going elsewhere to visit family, I'm here playing around with utilities in the latest version of OS X, in this case, DashCode.

So, with little fanfare, I submit a Dashboard Widget for you Mac users that brings up this humble little blog. I have no graphical abilities, so I won't claim it's pretty, but it does work, using this existing RSS feed. You can download it here (more)

22 Dec '07 - 20:41 | No comments yet

First Look: The 2008 OSI/USSF Uniform - §

Note: When you click the (more) link to view the entire article, you'll want to increase, if not maximize, the screen to see both the text and pictures.

I won't kid you about buying the jerseys so I can review them on the site - no, I bought them because I want to do Regionals again, I want to do semi-pro games again - I want to do good games. Before the first time I went to Regionals (and what a neat thing it is to say that), I was told by one of the assessors who was going with us, the equivalent of, "Good, you have Official Sports jerseys - that's what you're supposed to have"; he then went on to say that since Regionals is a USSF sponsored tournament, and OSI is a USSF sponsor, you should wear OSI gear.

I'm sure OSI loves to hear that, because even with holiday "specials" going on, you're going to shell out over $500 if you decide to refit your entire wardrobe (more)

14 Dec '07 - 16:28 | twelve comments, already

Regionals Diary 2007 - §

I was privileged enough to be invited back to participate in the US Youth Soccer regional tournament; all those who won their respective State Cups, or got in from winning the Regional League come here to fight for a berth to the national championship. It's tremendous soccer, and plenty of the joy of victory and the agony of defeat for referees as well (more)

10 Nov '07 - 01:25 | three comments, already

10 Best of 2006, The List - §

Below are my totally subjective list of the best entries I wrote in 2006. I've also tossed in, just in case you want to want to see how things have changed, added the "Best Of" lists for 2005, 2004, and 2003 . (more)

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Review of the Timex O.V.A. (Optimum Viewing Angle) Watch - §

Reffing, like soccer itself, is pretty simple in its requirements: you need to be there, know the Laws of the Game, and have the instruments to enforce it. The bare essentials of the later requirement are a whistle (to get people’s attention), cards (to administer misconduct, and in some places that can be flexible), a place to write down important facts about the game (including the score), and a watch (to keep track of the amount of time in the game).

I’m pretty picky about watches, although my requirements are few: (more)

20 Apr '07 - 17:57 | five comments, already

How to Become a Better Referee - §

As I was editing How to Become a Referee, several things came to mind on things that you can do to become a better referee. This is my all means not an exhaustive list, but something I've pick up over the years, after I decided that I wanted to keep blowing the whistle, and that I wanted to become better at it. Feel free to add suggestions. (more)

15 Mar '07 - 22:23 | two comments, already

How to Become a Referee - §

Becoming a referee is not a terribly difficult process - but let's be totally honest here - staying one is. Not having a ton of experience, I can't help a whole lot with the later, but here's a quick summary of what to do for the former (OK, and a little of what I've learned - take with salt). (more)

28 Jan '07 - 20:41 | two comments, already

USA Cup Diary 2006 - §

Even with some flaws this year, it's still the best run, and one of the most memorable, if not the most optimistic, tournaments in the nation. As usual, the good, the bad, and the ugly - with the ugly being more spread out this year, but not quite as intense as last (more)

27 Sep '06 - 11:18 | four comments, already

10 Best of 2005, The List - §

Below are my totally subjective list of the best entries I wrote in 2005. I've also tossed in, just in case you want to want to see how things have changed, added the "Best Of" lists for 2004 and 2003 (more)

21 Feb '06 - 17:54 | No comments yet

List of Products Reviewed - §

There have been three formal reviews of products on this site. Here they are, in order:

Review of Masterclass for Soccer Officials

Review of the RefsCall Electronic Flag Set

Product review of the new USSF Shorts

18 Feb '06 - 10:06 | No comments yet

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